Posts Tagged ‘America’

The Freedom Coin of the USA

July 4, 2010

Happy Fourth of July, Everyone!

This year, my thoughts turn to a subject that I’ve used for years in my work with adolescents – and that’s what I like to call “The Freedom Coin.” It’s a very simple idea, but it was at the heart of our Declaration of Independence and Bill of Rights just as much as it is the big lesson about “growing up.” It’s so important, in fact, that we may as well put it as it is: No one grows up until they are prepared to accept responsibility for the consequences of their own freely chosen actions or inactions.

And there it is in one gulp – a living definition of The Freedom Coin:

“Freedom” is simply one face of an inseparably two-sided coin. The other side also has a name – and that name is “Responsibility.”

In life, both as individuals and as a nation, we get as much freedom as we are willing to take responsibility for using.

When we fail to grasp this simple, but not-always-easy-or-convenient-to-live-by concept of The Freedom Coin, we are like the teenager who wants to use the car, but who also wants mom or dad to pay for any tickets or jail bonds that may result from a night on the town.

“I demand my rights!” It’s a statement in our beautiful USA that we hear often these days. In fact, we even hear it from people who are here in this country illegally – and we hear it because it’s always true. All of us – every living human being on this good earth – has a right to decent treatment from others as a fellow human being. It’s just that the cry for rights simply begs off the question that is always raised by The Freedom Coin: Are you willing to take responsibility for your own behavior in regard to this right you seek? Or do you simply want the keys to the car while someone else pays for the gas?

It’s too bad the Founding Fathers did not also write a corresponding Bill of Responsibilities to go with their fine effort on the Bill of Rights. It would’ve been tougher, but definitely possible. Otherwise, the Bill of Rights would not have been important as a statement of basic freedoms that we value in America. As freedoms, each statement in the Bill of Rights, even if their costs are totally unstated or merely implied,  also carries with it certain inseparable responsibilities as the other sides of each rights coin on the list.

Imagine our USA as a nation where all the adults lived by a full grasp of The Freedom Coin. It will never happen, except in a perfect world, because the real world is totally over-run with greedy folks, rampant sociopathy, and others who are simply dedicated to remaining emotional children for the rest of their lives. It’s still fun to play with the idea of a nation where our leaders, at least, grasped and lived by a working model  of the inseparable relationship between freedom and responsibility in their personal actions.

Imagine a nation where …

… politicians placed the good of the people ahead of personal gain;

… captains of industry pursued healthy profits, but drew the line on decisions that put corporate gain ahead of the welfare of their employees and the communities they purportedly served;

… moral leaders possessed an ability to say “no” sometimes to the temptation of using certain human misery causes as simply their stepping-stone paths to personal attention and power on the national level;

… children were always more than another redundant  bi-product of sexual promiscuity;

… moms and dads really tried to work out their issues rather than divorcing each other  and going off  to repeat similarly unworkable hellhole fates with “new” partners; and, finally,

… baseball hired a commissioner who finally said: “From now on to the crack of doom, there will be no designated hitters; and all future World Series games will be played in the daytime so the kids can watch them too.”

Ah, yes! – The good old Freedom Coin! It never goes away, whether we pick it up or not. I’d like to pick up The Coin, on the content level, anyway, by adding it to a new supercharged and enhanced version of the Pledge of Allegiance. The new Pledge would read like the following as my way of wishing all of you a Most Happy and Safe Fourth of July Celebration 2010:

I pledge Allegiance to the Flag,

Of the United States of America,

And to the Republic,

For which it Stands,

One Nation,

Under God,

Indivisible,

With Liberty and Justice,

Freedom and Responsibility,

For All.

LA UNFITNESS

June 19, 2010

ONCE UPON A TME, THE CITIZENS OF LA GATHERED TOGETHER ON THE STREETS LATE AT NIGHT TO SHOW HOW HAPPY THEY WERE THAT THEIR NBA LAKERS CLUB HAD JUST WON ITS 16TH WORLD BASKETBALL CHAMPIONSHIP.

SOME OF THE CELEBRATING LAKER FANS THOUGHT IT WOULD BE A GOOD IDEA TO START THE PARTY BY SETTING A BOSTON CELTICS JERSEY ON FIRE.

OTHER LAKER FANS THOUGHT THAT TURNING CARS OVER IN THE STREET WAS AN EVEN MORE FUN IDEA.

OTHER LAKER FANS DECIDED TO MAKE IT A LAID-BACK "CASUAL DRESS" NIGHT FOR CRUISING THE STREETS AND SHOWING OFF THEIR TEAM GEAR. NOT ALL OF THE FANS WHO CHOSE THIS ROUTE OF CELEBRATION WERE SHOT - AT LEAST, NOT SHOT DEAD.

OF COURSE, MANY COULD NOT RESIST SETTING UP THE "HUMAN PNATA" GAME IN THE STREETS - IN SPITE OF THE FACT THAT IT WAS NOT A SATURDAY AND THAT MOST PARTICIPANTS, INCLUDING THE PINATA, HAD TO GO TO WORK THE NEXT DAY.

PEOPLE ATTEMPTING TO DRIVE THROUGH THE DOWNTOWN PARTY AREA QUICKLY LEARNED THAT A NEW POLICY HAD BEEN PUT IN PLACE BY THE LOCALS: NO CAR WAS ALLOWED TO PASS UNTIL THEY HAD ACCEPTED THE INSTALLATION OF A "HOOD ON THE HOOD" OF THEIR VEHICLE.

THE PENALTY FOR DRIVERS WHO REFUSED THE "HOOD ON THE HOOD" IDEA WAS STRAIGHTFORWARD AND SIMPLE. THEY GOT THEIR CARS ROLLED OVER AND SET ON FIRE WHILE THEY WERE STILL BEHIND THE WHEEL.

LA FANS WERE HAVING SO MUCH FUN THAT AN LA COP FINALLY SHOWED UP TO LOOK INTO THE ROOT CAUSES OF ALL THIS EXUBERANT DISPLAY OF GOOD-FUN MERRIMENT.

THE LA COPS FOUND THAT ALL THE CARS IN ONE BLOCK NEAR THE STAPLES CENTER, WHERE THE GAMES HAD BEEN PLAYED, HAD ALL BEEN FESTIVELY DECORATED THE SAME WAY. - THEY EACH HAD ALL THEIR WINDOWS BROKEN OUT BY THE CLEAR-VISION-FANATICAL LA FANS AND OTHER ASSORTED AND MORE BLEARY-EYED PARTYGOERS.

BEFORE THE LAKER FAN PARTY ENDED, A LOT MORE LA FOLKS GOT TO MEET A LOT MORE LA COPS. - I HATE TO SOUND SNOBBISH HERE, FRIENDS, BUT IF THIS IS THE BEST THOSE WEST COAST FOLKS CAN DO, I'D RATHER LIVE IN HOUSTON WITHOUT A CHAMPIONSHIP THAN LIVE IN LA WITH ONE. - HAVE A NICE WEEKEND, FELLOW HOUSTONIANS AND TRY TO REMEMBER: . IF THE ASTROS DO HAPPEN TO DEFEAT THE TEXAS RANGERS AT LEAST ONCE DURING THE CURRENT WEEKEND SERIES, TRY NOT TO BURN AND ROLL YOUR NEIGHBOR'S CAR AFTER THE GAME. OK?

America the Breakable

June 6, 2010

The 1951 Oldsmobile was once one of the classiest cars on the All American highway.

Fords and Chevys and proud Chryslers too,

They once all rolled ‘cross the Red White and Blue,

But they had lots of company; what else can I say?

They were all born and bred in the USA!

Hudson and Nash and Kaiser-Fraser we knew,

‘Long with Packard, DeSoto, and Studebaker too.

Our affections resounded in many a pucker,

As we each laid a kiss on our happy new Tucker.

We built them with steel and extra cheap oil

That just seemed to flow from American soil.

We made them with care, taking nothing for granted,

We left trains for highways; we were simply enchanted.

Four wheels on gas would run us forever,

And Ike’s new roads worked like pushing a lever,

We rodded to the suburbs and a screaming new call,

That resulted in cities that strangled on sprawl.

Somewhere in time we stopped paying attention,

And the quality we built in them grew too slight to mention.

And new cars from Europe – and then from Japan,

Came in to soon challenge – the kings of car land.

And then one by one, our cars fell aside,

And we stopped making steel – as oil prices skied.

We borrowed more money – to just stay afloat,

As others from worse fates climbed onto the boat.

And now we all sit – on a bloated national debt,

As the oil spill floods us – and the terrorists fret,

Over who’s going to take us, hardest and first?

The threat of their bombs? Or the damn oilrig burst?

To all I say, “Listen! – It’s time for a change,

Back to that spirit we once found on the range.

We saw it in the Lady near old Ellis isle,

We found it on the trains that we built with great style.

New Americans and Old – it’s time to rebuild,

On passion not prices – on good and not greed.

I know we can do it – setting politics aside,

But how we do what – escapes my limited hide!”

Suggestions are welcome here.

Suggestions that work are more important than rhymes.

Some Memorial Day Thoughts

May 31, 2010

Long Live the USA! And Long Live the Memory of Those Who Died for Our Country!

Memorial Day 2010. The Indy 500. Baseball Season. The Beginning of Summer. Bar B Que. Which will we remember the most? Or maybe I shouldn’t ask. Bar B Que is an American craving. Maybe it’s simply more important for us to continue giving and receiving all those messages that remind us of what Memorial Day is supposed to mean to our American way of life each year.

We need to remember all the brave men and women who have  surrendered their lives for our country. We need to remember them everyday – but especially on this day – Memorial Day of 2010 and forever.

Happy Memorial Day, Everybody! When you you sink a salivating bite into some Bar B Que today. Just remember who made it all possible, but also remember the even more important items on our plates that their brave actions have secured for us as no other nation has ever enjoyed them:

Freedom of Thought and Movement, Respect for Human Rights, Scientific Advancement, Creative Artistry, Literature, and Athletic Accomplishment, yes, these and all other worthy expenditures of human energy are all the fruits that grow best in the constitutional sunlight of an open society – but these qualities, alone or together, don’t come without a price. Without the supreme sacrifices our military people have paid from the start, no one else in America has pockets deep enough to pick up the tab on what it’s all worth to the rest of us.

Pour that thought on your Bar B Que today too, folks. It’ll taste better. I guarantee it.

Remembering Uncle Carroll.

May 30, 2010

Reprinted here from the blog article I wrote on ChronCom.Com last Memorial Day, May 23, 2009.

Uncle Carroll & Aunt Florence on Lake Hamilton outside Hot Springs, Arkansas from 1946-1955.

Major Carroll Houston Teas (1917-1964) was a man of his time. When World War II came to the USA, he joined the service in San Antonio and went straight into training at Kelly Field with the Army Air Corps. Before shipping out to the Pacific theater as a military cargo pilot, he married his high school sweetheart, the forever lovely Florence MacPherson.

Uncle Carroll Teas & Aunt Florence married during world War II, before he shopped out to the South Pacific with the US Army Air Corps..

Uncle Carroll was my mother’s little brother. He and Aunt Florence were special to me during my young life in ways I’ll never be able to put into adequate words.

During World War II, Uncle Carroll flew logistic flghts of supplies all up and down the various South Pacific island chains. After the war, he used to regale me with stories of all the things they learned to do to keep from getting shot down by Japanese Zeroes over the open seas. One time, he told me, they were so badly outnumbered by Japanese figter planes that they had to fly blind within the clouds for many miles, just to keep from being taken down as an easy target. Many other times, they had to fly above or below the cloud banks to disguise themselves from Japanese fighter planes flying in the opposite direction.

“Off we go – into the wild blue yonder, flying high – into the sun.”

The Japanese also hid in blind cloudbank flight. The dangers of so doing on both sides are obvious, but that option beat the near certainty of getting shot down by faster aircraft in open skies.

I used to have a pair of pilot wings that Uncle Carroll sent me during World War II. Wish I had been a more careful saver of something that is now even more important to me, but I wasn’t. I used to pin those wings on my tee shirt before going out to play sandlot baseball and, somewhere on the playing fields of Houston, that’s where I gave it up.

After safely serving nearly the entire war in combat, Uncle Carroll finally ran into something that stopped him in ways that rapid-fire ammunition failed to do. He contracted polio while stationed in New Guinea. Oh, he came home to America alive in 1945, but he came home paralyzed for life. The only question was: Would he regain any use of his body – or would he be forced to live out his life in an iron lung?

Uncle Carroll and a buddy on the streets of San Antonio – right after coming home from World War II.

Coming home, I didn’t really see Uncle Carroll at all during the early months of his struggle with polio. The army sent him up to Hot Springs, Arkansas, where they treated a lot of polio cases back then with the aid of hot springs baths and swimming. Prior to his illness, Uncle Carroll was always a powerful, athletic person. He was a hard-hitting third baseman for the Brackenridge High School Eagles in San Antonio back in the mid-1930s and he wasn’t the kind of guy to give up in the face of adversity. That core value, in fact, is the lesson he always tried to instill in me at every chance he was yet to have. I can see him even now doing his most to make the best of a bad situation in his time of greatest personal crisis.

With Aunt Florence always by his side, Uncle Carroll fought back and regained full use of his body from the waist up. With special attachments to his car, he was able to drive again. Although still wheelchair bound for life, Uncle Carroll and Aunt Florence bought a home on Lake Hamilton in Hot Springs, where he resumed his life as a fisherman and hunter. His Chris Craft lake boat was his other kind of new mechanical mobility – but he also could still swim like a fish in the water with the use of his legs in spite of their failure to him on shore.

Uncle Carroll continued working for the Army in Hot Springs as an accountant after the war, but he also started his own freshwater fishing lure company, selling lures that he designed himself. During the winter months, he added “avid duck hunter” to his resume.

We lost Uncle Carroll to a coronary in 1964. It was one of the three saddest days in my life, along with those two crushing others, when I said goodbye to Mom and and then Dad.

The two things I’ve always tried to remember from Uncle Carroll will only die for me when I do: (1) Do the things in life you are willing to put your whole heart into; and (2) Never give up on what is really important to you.

It’s Memorial Day again and my thoughts go immediately to my Uncle Carroll Teas. He didn’t die in World War II, as is the group intended for core honor on Memoral Day, but he gave up his life, his health, and his future there for the sake of his country, as did millions of others. There’s simply no way this holiday ever passes without me thinking of him with love and gratitude. My hope here today too is that your thoughts also turn to the special American veteran in your own lives who once, or currently, have placed his or her life on the line for the defense of us all. Let’s do it again each day, and especially on our next Veterans Day!

“We’ll fly on – in fame – or down – in flame – Nothing can stop the Army Air Corps!”

Have a peaceful and blessed Memorial Day, everybody – and let’s all try to remember all the men and women of American military service who gave up their lives and health for the sake of this wonderful place we call the USA!.